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March 5, 2009
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On the Ground: Hope, Putting a Face with the Name

Dear Girlfriends,

 

Before my adventure to India, hope was a pretty generic, overused word as I looked out my bus window of life. I hoped to land a new client. I hoped the kids would enjoy their vacation. I hoped Steve would rub my feet (yes, hope springs eternal).

 

But on the ground in India, hope took on an altogether new meaning for me.

 

Meeting with 36 women who had built home businesses with the micro-loans they had received, hope was no longer a vague noun or an overused verb, but a face. Speaking with these women, with the help of a translator, I learned about their business successes. Each was in her fourth level of lending, meaning that each of them had been loaned, and had paid in full, three other cycles of advancements. Having borrowed amounts from approximately $100 U.S. in cycle one to over $2,000 in cycle four, these women, once starving, now provided for their families and community.

 

With the confidence of Fortune 500 presidents, the women stood, one by one, and shared with us how they started their businesses and their plans for expansion. Just a few years earlier, these Dalit women (once called the Untouchables, the lowest level in India's caste system) would not even make eye contact with other humans because they believed they were unworthy. But on this day they exuded both confidence and determination, as they shared their accomplishments and future strategies with their new American girlfriends. A fruit stand. A flower shop. A seamstress. A fish hatchery. A basket weaver. A retail store - with a newly expanded assortment. These women, representing hundreds more just like them, were inventive; impressive; and inspiring.

 

The small audience of American women sat in total silence, each of us holding our breath, for the presenter. At the end of each presentation, we outwardly cheered with enthusiastic pride for what these women, of all ages, had accomplished. And no doubt, more than a few of us wept inwardly for our personal reunion with hope.

 

"Here is what I know: all people are created equal.

Given the tools and incentives for success, they will succeed,

no matter where they are or where they live. . ."

- Former U.S. Secretary of the Treasury, Paul O'Neil

 

As the women shared their stories with us, two beautiful little girls, dressed in their school uniforms, peered in at us through the open doorway. "What about your daughters; are you teaching them business skills?" I asked them. "Yes," replied one woman. "They are learning our business with us." The little girls giggled and ran away - only to return minutes later but this time in new, brightly colored short sets. It appears that the concept of "FASHION SHOW!" knows no international boundary. And neither does hope.

 

Today, I no longer struggle to remember what hope looks like, because now she's a person to me. She is alive and well in a slum in Chennai, providing for her family and growing in her confidence.

 

If this note finds you wrung out, worn out, and hanging by your last thread, you might have forgotten what hope looks like, too. If so, please step to the nearest mirror and allow me to re-introduce you. You've pulled yourself up by your bootstraps before, you can do it again. Hope is alive.

 

 

Hopelessly hopeful,

Ellen


Posted by Ellen on March 5, 2009 10:59 AM  |  Category: On the Ground






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Excellent! This truth nugget was extremely timely for me today! I needed to hear these words again. Thanks!

Posted by Cheri | March 5, 2009 11:17 AM


Ever since I was a little girl and first heard about the caste system in India and the term "Untouchables," it bothered me to the core. It's delightful that these women are pulling themselves out of the stigma and hopelessness they have traditionally endured. Thanks for sharing, Ellen.

Posted by Jan Hunt | March 5, 2009 12:45 PM











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