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September 18, 2007
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Practice, Practice, Practice

Dear Girlfriends,

 

Practice makes perfect? I'm not sure about that, but I did find daily practice was essential to learning to play the piano. As I matured, I sometimes approached my practice sessions with very different objectives desiring very different outcomes. But one thing was for sure; the more I practiced, the better I got at practicing!

Daily prayer is as essential to growing spiritually as daily practice is to learning to play an instrument. And just as you might have different objectives and approaches to practice, so might you have in prayer. Let me explain - but first, let's determine exactly who we're praying to.

I played the same piano almost every day of my life for 20 years. The name etched over Middle C never changed; it was perfectly clear that I was playing a Bradbury Baby Grand. But when it comes to prayer, some folks seem confused as to who they're praying to. God is God. Not the Good Fairy, Santa Claus, or a Falling Star. When you're communing, realize that you're speaking directly to the Almighty Creator. If that doesn't humble you, I don't know what will.

So what are some of the different objectives of prayer? There were times I would approach my piano with one goal and one goal, only: to relish the music and to allow the melody to wash over me. Pure joy - that was my only objective for my practice time. So, also, should you set aside a time to just worship God for who He is. That's right - no requests - pure praise. Think of it like your kids running in to say, "Mom, you're the best Mom in the world" without the second part of the sentence, "Can I have 20 dollars?" Just take time to acknowledge the Designer of heaven and earth - and your Creator - not for what He can do for you but for who He is.

There are times I would approach my practice with the goal of getting better. I would set my metronome and focus intently on each note, each beat - striving, desiring to play better. Sometimes I was successful. Sometimes I was not. Likewise, there are times when you go to God with a specific desire. And, like my practice - you might get the outcome you want or you might get the outcome He intends for you to have. In her book, I Told the Mountain to Move, Patricia Raybon shares a story about her daughter's conversion to the Muslim faith. She writes,

"My prayer for her salvation in Christ continued daily. But God's orders, in the
meantime, were to trust him always and to show her love right now. . . But I still
didn't understand what was happening. When I prayed, God still spoke to my spirit with one answer: Love her. Trust me. And have some peace. Stop
turning yourself inside out, trying to run my business."

Do you ever try to run God's business? Yeah, me too.

Many times during my practice sessions I couldn't tell if I was making any progress at all. So I would tape myself, and listen. A lot of my friends say, "I can't tell what God's trying to say to me". Speaking the truth in love, I encourage them to shut up for a while. If you'll stop whining, you might get some clarity. Glory be!

Sometimes when I practiced, I would focus on one piece of music - the hard one. The one that challenged me; the piece that made me feel inadequate; the score that threatened my self-esteem. I would sometimes literally yell out loud in total frustration. Same with prayer. It's OK to be honest when you're angry with God. There are times when prayer is a clearing of the air.

Practice make perfect? I have no proof of that. But I do have proof that prayer delivers direction, joy, peace, and contentment - especially when we're specific in our approach.

 

Scheduling my practice time,

Ellen


Posted by Ellen on September 18, 2007 2:53 PM  |  Category: The Piano Lesson






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For those that have trouble directing your prayers, or just knowing what to say - I highly recommend "The Power of a Praying Woman", or "The Power of a Praying Wife". Just flipping through that book inspired me to pray for things beyond just what I want, and helped me to become more focussed and intentional in my praying.

Posted by Erin Blair | September 18, 2007 3:15 PM











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